For decades, New Jersey was mocked as the place you drive through to get somewhere else. Now the Garden State is becoming a destination in its own right, and bu

For decades, New Jersey was mocked as the place you drive through to get somewhere else. Now the Garden State is becoming a destination in its own right, and buyers are taking notice. "The secret is out." Developer Ralph Zucker points to a mix that's increasingly hard to ignore: access to New York…